Scenario: What would you say or do, if anything? This hypothetical scenario of workplace dilemma arises often, and the way it is handled could have a major impact on one’s career and personal relationship as well as on the vital twin assets of reputation and credibility. Recently society has been deluged with bad decisions by talented, multi- millionaires like Paris Hilton, Kobe Bryant, Brittany Spears, Lindsey Lohan and a parade of politicians, priests, police officers, firefighters, corporate executives and college coaches. And it’s not only the bad people who make bad decisions. If we are not vigilant, any one of us can find ourselves compromising our principles in a moment controlled by impulses like self-indulgences, fear, self-interest or ambition. Good intentions and moral rhetoric are no match for a strong temptation and our capacity to rationalize. We must fortify our moral aspirations and our ethical leadership with both discipline and good judgment. Most will say the firefighter you saw at the home supply store made a poor decision. Some would say it’s no big thing. It happens all the time. Some would say it wasn’t the right thing to do but take no action, and some will say it wasn’t the right thing to do and take action. How do you feel about the firefighter’s decision, and what would you do about it? Let us know, and we will print as many thoughts as possible. I believe most of us would say the firefighter made a poor and unethical decision. When he was observed at the home supply store, he and you were put in an uncomfortable situation. He abused the department sick-leave policy and probably violated the department’s rules and regulations. His decision could lead to some type of discipline. And the reality of the decision is this: it was just not right. My mother use to tell me to stop and look both ways before I cross the street. That is also a good thought to have before making a decision. We should stop, think, and ask ourselves if we are making a good choice. The following are some questions to ask ourselves:
It’s often said that our choices reveal our character. It is
also said our choices shape our character. In turn our character shapes our destiny. So, how would you define character? I believe
that character is simply ethics in action. Successful leaders focus on building a
sustainable ethical culture that nurtures and promotes integrity, competence, accountability,
respect and discourages dishonesty and encourages trust and respect. I believe the officer of character would say
something to the firefighter at the home supply store. This is certainly easier said than done.
There is no such thing as the perfect fire officer or perfect firefighter. We
all make mistakes. We say and do things we regret. The important thing is that
we learn from the mistakes we make.
Sometimes emotion and ego get in the way of changing the
unrewarding decision and course we are traveling, and we keep right on trucking
and digging a deeper hole. We kind of “cut off our nose to spite our face.” There are those who rationalize poor behavior
as to why it wasn’t their fault. Examples
of this include the firefighter who fails a promotional exam and then blames the exam
maker or claims the department has it out for him/her or the exam was developed for
a favorite child. How about the lazy
firefighter who comes to work to rest or to just do the bare minimum? He/she rationalizes this behavior in his/her own mind and lets us all know about it. Most of us will
just listen and not challenge the unacceptable rationale of the complaining
firefighter. People of character will not let this rationalization slide.
Organizations of character would also not let this behavior go unnoticed. This is
such a vital point. Everywhere we see
evidence that we're becoming a nation of unaccountable victims, whiners, and
wimps all too ready to pass off responsibility to someone else.
Satirist Ambrose Bierce poked fun at this tendency when he defined responsibility as "a detachable burden easily shifted to the shoulders of God, Fate, Fortune, Luck, or one's neighbor." The parade of recently indicted CEO’s added a new object of blame to this list ("It was the people who worked for me!") as they claimed to be victims rather than perpetrators of frauds that enriched them. Everywhere we turn, we see people blaming personal shortcomings and social ills on circumstances beyond their control or on an irresponsible media, greedy businessmen, corrupt politicians, irresistible economic pressures, and every manner of psychological syndrome. Yes, and even poor fire department leadership. What temptations we resist and surrender to are always a matter of choice. The choices we make are a reflection of our character. Some will say it was a minor error and not a big problem when the firefighter abused the sick leave policy. What would happen if your
battalion chief were also driving by the home supply store and saw both you and the firefighter. If the
battalion chief confronted you, what would you say? Would you cover-up? As with Watergate and President Nixon, sometimes the cover-up ends up being worse than the underlying offense. The bottom line is each of us can be as ethical with our decisions as we are willing to be. We need to think about our decisions in terms of simply right or wrong, how it impacts relationships, our credibility and our reputation. © Copyright Firenuggets.com 2008 Click here for Terms and Conditions of Use |
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